There is a friend of mine that I hadn't heard from in a while. She joined Facebook back in the summer and we used that means to keep in touch via FB as well as phone and email. Now I will admit that there is a bit of "history" between us and that could be a blog onto it's self but I noticed that when I met someone and we got together, we didnt talk as much. Honestly, it would not have registered in my mind right away that we werent talking as much (we were rather sporadic from the get in our communication) but good old Facebook clued me in. I sent her a birthday card and when she finally got it (she usually goes days without checking her mail), she sent me a note saying thanks and made a comment about my card. (I send comedic cards, sometimes racy and this one was both) So I went with it and after a couple of messages, she replied like...I cant talk about that with you, your involved. HUH!!!! I mean really, I just talk s*it I know my role and besides I am not driving 3 hours to try anything! So because I have a girl, all of a sudden you cant just have banter that we have had before, hell even when you had a man! Geez, I hate it when folks (male and/or female friends) get brand new!
I guess in my mind, nothing has changed just the fact that I cant go having random conversations with random women! She has known me for a few years now and I would think that she knows that I havent changed, the only thing that is different is that I have someone in my life. I am not going to not be cool with my friends or change my disposition so why should or why did she? Has this happened to you? What do you think about this situation or tell me about yours and how did it make you feel?
